I am Gay, now what?
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I so want to leave this answer at that one word but I am sure my editor needs and wants more so here goes.
You finally admit to yourself that you are gay. Good for you. You have thought about this for ages. You may have pondered the consequences of this realization with some fear – some excitement and certainly some hesitation. But you have come to the realization and now what do you do?
You behave the same way you would if you woke up one morning and discovered you were straight. You move on with your life WITH INTEGRITY.
Open up the box that our society seems to prefer we all live in and see what’s out there. There are so many parts of your life that you will explore, straight or gay, that you need to allow your life to take you places you might not have expected you would go. Be open. Pay attention to your head and your heart and you will be a joyfilled and happy gay person.
Learn from generations past. There are things out there that will hurt you. Know what they are and avoid them when you can. Pain will make you grow – so will mistakes and you will experiences both on your journey. You would experience the same things if you were not gay.
Embrace who you are. Cherish you life and the way you love.
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I really want to find a guy i can sleep with as well as live with i a house.
My Dearest Respondent,
Amanda assumes that your response to the I am Gay, Now What, series of questions says, “I really want to find a guy I can sleep with as well and live with in a house.”? There are all sorts of places to find someone who will live with you and sleep with you and do so in a house. Is your life so simple that that is all you desire? How about love, how about life companionship? How about mowing the lawn? All of these are very important parts of what might be a life-partnership. But Amanda guesses you really are looking for more than a roommate you can sleep with in a house.
Amanda wishes you the best of luck in your search for that person. She also encourages you to create a vision in your head of what “HE” might be like. And please do not reduce him to “blond, tall, hunky, under 24, hung.” Make him funny, caring, compassionate, honest and loyal. Find that man who compliments your life not completes it, who truly wants to share your lives together, to be there when you need him and wants and needs you to be there when he needs you. Dont settle for anything – ever. There are those days when we all feel that I better take whats there instead of seeking the right match – DO NOT GIVE IN to that thinking. They are out there – and guess what – they are looking for you – let yourself be found.
Kiss, Kiss,
Amanda