Everybody has learned a lesson or two about life the hard way. Sometimes, even when we have been warned against or possibly shown the way to something, we give little heed to the words of advice from an older friend. So by trial and error, luck and mishap, we learn what it is to be gay, to be male, to be humans.
A few classics like Ranier Maria Rilke: Letters To A Young Poet offer some thoughful insight, but horrors like “Everything You Wanted to Know About Sex” and others painted gay and bi men as perverted, cross-dressing pedophiles.
Did you have an older gay mentor? What did he tell you?
What do you wish an older gay man had told you?
What would you tell a younger gay man today?
Leave your comments below.
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I wish an older man had told me that you shouldn’t trust somebody just because they are gay.
lot of guys lies about themselves. They lie about their age, what look like and what they do for a job
I wish an older gay man had told me to relax and enjoy myself and not worry about being gay at all. It’s not a big deal, any more than the color of your eyes.
I wish an older man had told me that you don’t have to sleep with somebody just because they are gay.
I wish somebody had told me how much courage it takes to come out.”
I wish an older man had told me that sometimes a guy just wants to fuck. He does not want your name, your phone number or any details. Just random sex.
Just because you are gay, you don’t have change your personality to be more effeminate , or have to take on stereotypical hobbies and activites.
I wish an older man gay had told me that, being a bi, or gay is a challenge most probably to those men that not yet come out with their closet. Because there’s a lot of people that you accompany for the days comming, that’s why you need to be observant for everything. But in the nice way.
being gay is not one life style id wish on anyone but i will say this ive been sucking cock for 35 years now and for me hoss i like it the life style IS one of if not the hardest to live–couldn`t pick me out of a growd blend in with the str8`s and then you`ve got a wonderful loving brother like mine that shits you whole life down the drain,no promotion,raises stop,and now youre taged. beaten his face to butt ugle doesn`t work any longer he likes it. but some how life goes on and yep i still laugh at my self and him because it not what outside its in you heart. as rotten as ive seen it there still time to kiss him and enjoy a good ole snor 3 o`clock in thae morning. hey love ya guy`s not all of us are lies cheats and theif`s-im not never will be and got over all THOSE assholes–later hoss
ohkay i had plenty of men tell me all kinds of things but i do know one thing that most guys realize for themselves later is more offten your going to see them older men and yes yourself finding it out for yourself–remember all the things your parents said and you had to find some of them out FOR YOUR SELF–and most gay`s already know this as fact-ya`l dont be good